Tips for getting out of a toxic relationship

" when a girl gives up, it's not because she doesn't love you, but because she is tired of getting hurt and feels like you will never care." 

 : On this article i will give you 6 tips to recover from being hurt by someone you love 

First, you should focus on loving your self more than hating them because when you are hurt a lot of negative emotions like sadness, disbelief, and anger take over you, you just want to keep hating the person who has hurt you, to heal it, it is important that you work towards infusing into your life, the love and positivity lost from the hurtful experience. So choose to love yourself and give yourself another chance to find hapiness which lies in you

Secondly, you have to remember that people can actually become better that's to say if the person who you admired, has besome negative, it is indeed possible that this person can turn back to what they were before. So remember that you can't control how other peaople behave, but you can control your reaction to it and how it affects you

Third, Don't close yourself off, that's to say don't let negative experiences stop you from living your life, there are wonderful people out there who would give you the love and respect you deserve. So you just need to be open to accept them and look forward to new experience

Fourth, Seek professional help Leaving and recovering from a toxic relationship will take effort and time. Reach out to support groups or counselors who are experienced in relationship issues. A therapist can be a great impartial resource to guide you and hold you accountable for creating and meeting your goals. An experienced family law attorney is also necessary if you're leaving a marriage

   ,Fifth, Stop talking to your partner, Toxic people are very cunning and can use emotional blackmail to lure you back in. When you make the decision to leave your partner, stop any form of communication with them unless you have children and need to co-parent. In this case, only communicate about the children. If you need to file a restraining order, do so

  ,Sixth, Indulge yourself  Being part of a toxic relationship is extremely detrimental to your self-esteem and mental health. It may take some time before you are ready to be part of another relationship. Don’t rush this. Take time for yourself. To help yourself recover, make time for hobbies. Start working on a pet project or your own business. Take that trip you've always wanted to go on

A Word From Verywell

Not only is being in a toxic relationship extremely hard, but you also might even feel trapped in it. You deserve to be happy, however, and rid of the harm and negativity that it's causing you. Leaving an unhealthy and toxic relationship is a tremendously difficult and brave step to take, but you can do it

If you want to find happiness and comfort in your life again, you have to make the leap. There are good people out there. Don't let this experience sabotage your pursuit of joy. If you're having trouble coping or need help creating boundaries, be sure to reach out to a mental health professional

So everyone will meet one person who is unlike any other